
It all started with:
“Nell, a suggestion for a future post: How many people prefer no lube vs. lube when cranking their meat? That goes for the ladies too… Does the beaver enjoy being stroked on land or in the water?”Three thoughts crossed my mind:
*Ah, again a “no one will let you know his truth” kind of topic
*Do I like it called the beaver?
*Mmmm… Mmmasturbation…
Of course, masturbation is a part of my sex life. I consider it one of the keys to the doors of sexual health and success in a relationship. If you are not addicted and obsessed about self-satisfying your flesh, there is nothing bad in it. The real downside is that many don’t feel comfortable discussing, watching, not to mention indulging in this nasty dirty act. Although I personally don’t share the bad attitude, it’s probably justified...
I was shocked to find out the following facts from history. During the 1820s some adult parents were so against masturbation that they made their sons wear
metal chastity belts, or
pierced the foreskin with a wire and put the ends together that made it painful to have an erection; while young women were forced to wear
steel gloves at night! People thought masturbation can lead to madness and illness. Thanks God we are living in a sexually-liberated time. Now everyone has the choice and knowledge, and I believe few are able to say they haven't done it
at least once, cause sometimes it’
s so cool to get mad... ;)
Actually, there are many interesting definitions of masturbation: self-manipulation, self-stimulation, manual excitation, hand job, auto eroticism, self-abuse… Oh my, for me this is simply
“massage”!
And, of course, what’s the massage without proper lubricating the skin right?We were born naked, hungry and wet… Have you ever noticed that wetness always goes together with the feeling of pleasure? We get a turn-on and our panties get wet. We kiss and our kisses are tastefully wet. We f*ck and we sweat. All in all, we cum wet! Wet sex is good sex. I was once told
“More saliva, more pleasure”, so, in my opinion, the best lubricants ever are saliva and our own juice. When I’m aroused I get wet in a moment, so I rarely need some specifically-designed lubrication. If the merciless lust bumps me outdoor – my own creams come to the rescue to wet the clit and all my hot surroundings. Another piece of cake when additional lubricants are not involved is, as I call it, the
“precum exchange” when you are masturbating in front of your lover, so you can easily use his/her precum for your own “in front of” masturbation! Just take some amount and lubricate yourself...
Meantime, when my self-dance turns into a long-lasting show, I like to slowly lead myself into the world of the pleasant painful pulsation with some preferable lubes which add extra sensations and definitely make my skin
better.
Of course, a wide range of lubes is available today and as you are your own best friend, you can choose the best for you among warming lubricants (
Pure Passion gel),
edible,
prolonging lubes,
jack off lubes (
Instant hand job) for men.
My unchangeable rule in choosing both male and female lubricant is: natural ingredients and water base.
Water-based lubricants (O'my natural lubricant is a nice one) are all-purpose lubes; they can be used with sex toys, with a partner, with a condom, for anal joys.
Oil-based lubricants are good too, they are usually made from
natural vegetable or nut oils, don’t cause irritation, but are difficult to wash off, tend to stain fabrics and destroy latex.
Silicone-based lubricants are
waterproof and fantastic for shower plays, but I personally don’t like very slippery things and those that harm silicone sex toys.
Thus, I don’t know about the beavers, but my kitty purrs when I give it some water. Purrrr ;)
Well, if you are not morally opposed to this nasty dirty act and have some masturbation secrets, preferences, attitudes, impressions, and so on and so forth –
please don’t keep them to yourself any longer. Masturbation is a show and “show must go on” with sharing. Sharing leads to practice, practice leads
to Perfection… That’s why we are here on my little blog, ok?
Purrr ;)