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Mastering the Art of Online Flirting
by Alan Lim

Online dating is an excellent way of meeting new people and expanding your dating pool. For some, it is also a great way for getting back in the dating scene. Though online dating sites are often stereotyped as an arena for the desperate, they are actually an effective venue for singles who are interested in meeting others.

Most people who engage in online dating lead busy lives, and do not have time to indulge in social activities. Others turn to online dating to widen their social horizons or simply to have a fresh start. But whatever their reasons, online dating is a proven way for social renewal.

Dating, in general goes hand in hand with flirting. For those who wonder if they can master the art of online flirting, of course you can! All you need to do is learn all about the different online flirting approaches, and you’ll be on your way to a successful online dating experience.

Online dating is usually carried on through live chat or electronic mail. In your communications, always keep it short, simple and sweet. Stick to light-hearted and upbeat tones in your conversation. This is proven to attract online dates. Use easy to answer questions, and in return make your responses simple.

In a written correspondence, always use screen names. Limit the use of emoticons, you don’t want to sound annoying, when overdone, or too giddy and insincere.

Use humor as your ally, but of course remember to use it in good taste. Deliver with confidence; dates will definitely pick that up.

Compliment your date. Everyone likes to be complimented. The best compliments are those with the element of surprise. Keep your compliments sincere, honest, and genuine. When you receive a compliment yourself, the best response would be to simply say, "Thank You!"

A great online flirting tip is to use "enticers" in your email communications. You may want to try the tried and tested pick-up lines or devise your own, but try to keep them light and inviting so as not to sound predatory. The key is to sound cute, interested and above all sincere. This will help ignite sparks in your emails and will surely get you that much-coveted first date.

Simply hold on to these simple to follow steps and helpful online flirting tips, and with proper timing, you’ll soon become a top online flirter.

Good luck!

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Wed, 13 Jun 2007 00:00:00 GMT
Learning Seduction - Finding "Targets"
by Marcus Aurelius

This may seem like an elementary statement but…You have to go where the women are! Too many guys cheat themselves out of meeting great women because they avoid the venues where they hang out. They go to sports bars over coffee shops, take golf lessons over Latin dance lessons, go to hardcore gyms over health clubs, they avoid malls, get the idea?

Yoga may not be the manliest of sports, but it’s great cardio-vascular exercise and the classes are usually 28 women and 2 guys. Aerobics classes may not be your cup of tea, but you’ll be in a room with mostly young women, all clad in spandex and doing stretches we can only pray to see in a strip club. Why not get involved with one of these activities instead of getting your cardio in on a boring treadmill or Stairmaster?

As for hobbies, dancing the Salsa or country line dancing might not look manly to you, but the majority of the people in the class are, once again, young women, and the instructor will be forcing people to change partners frequently. Women will literally be forced to meet you, and they’ll be holding their bodies against you the whole time; you’ll be in an ideal position.

If you’re not into clubs, then coffee shops, health food restaurants, new age/esoteric conventions, health clubs, street festivals, and shopping malls are all excellent places to meet single women. And don’t make the mistake of avoiding these places at peak hours. People tend to avoid crowds, but the fact is that if there are more people in a certain place, the law of averages dictates that there’s going to be more desirable women there too. If you end up waiting a little bit for a machine at a health club, or in line at a coffee shop, so what? Maybe you’ll end up next to an attractive woman and be able to strike up a conversation.

By the way, a pick-up artist saying he “doesn’t do clubs” is like a hockey player saying “I don’t do arenas”, or a baseball player saying “I don’t do stadiums”. To really be a successful you have to work clubs and bars. That’s the arena where the game is played. Women walking down the street or sitting in a coffee shop may be easier targets with less competition around, but they aren’t intentionally there to meet guys. In clubs and bar settings they are; despite what many of them claim. Even those going out for “a night with the girls” are going out with friends who are looking to meet guys. Those who are claiming to go out just to “dance and have fun” aren’t ruling out meeting a nice guy. The number of married women in clubs or those who have serious boyfriends and are off-limits, are actually very few.

If you really can’t go into clubs because you have asthma and can’t take the smoke, or loud music gives you a headache, or you get fed up of people bumping into you, fine. At least go walk along the main clubbing strip and open groups of women walking along or standing in line. Obviously all those women in the club have to walk along that sidewalk to get there in the first place, so why not meet them there? Here are some reasons why this is a good idea:
- Since they’re not in the club yet they probably haven’t gotten their shields up. They’ll be less likely to blow you off or be rude.
- There will be less competition. The guys in the club will have a few drinks in them and will have more guts to approach the women. On the street, they usually won’t be ready to do a serious approach…leaving them all for you!
- If you catch her before she goes into the club, you’ll be the first guy she met that night. You’ll stick out in her mind the day after, especially if you came off cool, and afterwards the guys in the club all approached her like losers. It’ll provide more contrast for your value when you call her.
- Conversely, if you catch a group of women as they’re leaving a club and there are no guys with them, odds are they didn’t meet anyone that spectacular and they’re leaving in a frustrated state. Here’s your chance to demonstrate your value and salvage their night out.
- Aside from the guys in the Boomcars driving by, there’s no loud music out on the sidewalk. You can say anything and have it be understood, without having to repeat yourself three times or scream in her ear.
So take these tips, and get out there. Remember, to meet women, you have to “go where the women are”

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Sun, 10 Jun 2007 00:00:00 GMT
Swivel Barstools Can Get You Dates

by Marc Hardey

Imagine yourself watching TV at your favorite pub. You're certain there's no truth to those beer commercials. You bought the "right" beer, but there are no bikini-clad women in sight. Just when you think about calling it a night, however, a beautiful woman sashays into the bar. She takes the swivel barstool beside you, and then tries to catch your eye. So, you make your move. You stand up. You pick up the chair and move it 90 degrees towards the goddess. Then, you sit back down. That was a loser move. Your odds of success would have improved with a swivel barstool. Yes, the humble swivel barstool - that seat you barely glance at before you sit on it - can do wonders for your love life! Believe it or not, an inanimate swivel barstool can help improve the social interaction of two people in bars, thus playing a key role in the dating game.

How You Say It
In a way, stools can talk. Experts have learned that verbal communication only makes up about 7% of our whole communication. The other 93%, while based a little on how we talk, is mostly anchored on our body language. Objects in our environment, including swivel barstools, contribute to our non-verbal communication. If our back is rigidly pressed up against a stool's backrest while our arms glued to the armrests, one might think we are bracing ourselves for escape. That, or a fight. But if we lean forward slightly on the stool, with our elbows resting on the armrests and our fingers neatly interlocked, we give off an entirely different message.

A Numbers Game
With most communication being non-verbal, it is wise to master it when playing the dating game. A social scientist once conducted an interesting experiment. He sat on a park bench and asked 100 women, all of them complete strangers, for a first date. Ninety-nine of the women said "no," and the one woman who said "yes" later stood him up.

The Eyes Have It
The only way to win the dating game is to know all the rules. Experts have observed that in terms of physical interaction, people always fall in love the same way. In fact, the phenomenon is not specific to any particular nation, locale, or situation. First, two people make eye contact, then one of them gives positive body language to other person. Body language could come in the form of a nod, wave, or "point." Points can be done with a finger, arm, leg, or inanimate object. After this happens, either of the people approaches the other, entering his or her "personal space." Eventually, the two people's bodies directly face each other. This is where the swivel barstool comes in handy. Spinning around aimlessly on the chair could humor Miss Blonde Bombshell or Mr. Right, but it's also possible it might not. The swivel barstool's 360 degree range of motion, however, turns an ordinary stool into a "power seat."

Report and Rapport
In dating, this "power seat" swivel barstool functions differently for men and women. Men typically "report" in their communication, while women usually prefer "rapport." Studies have shown that adult men prefer to communicate with each other side-by-side, as if they were riding in a vehicle. Eye-to-eye contact among male humans and animals is often considered threatening. On the other hand, women prefer to communicate with each other face-to-face, in order to deepen their bond. So, men like to be approached from their side, while women prefer others to be approached from the front. Remember this rule when that special someone on a swivel barstool catches your eye. In dating, swivel barstools are more than seats; they can be accomplices. They even the odds in your favor by making you approachable from any side any time.

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Fri, 08 Jun 2007 00:00:00 GMT
The Art of Seduction

by Caroline Silverstone

Persuading a woman that you are worthy of her amorous regard is never an easy task, despite what the movies may say. It isn’t even a matter of looks; though if you have that then your job is a lot easier. It’s about convincing a woman that you have something different to offer than all of the other men that tried to romance her before. It is also important to bring something unique to the table that will make you stand out in her mind as something special.

It is often said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. But, what is less known is that a way to a woman’s heart is through her mind. No one is going to get anywhere when it comes to female affections through looks alone, the true seducer has to bring a wide range of mental skills to bear. One way to do this, believe it or not, is through the stomach. The difference between a meal for a man and a meal for a woman is that a woman is intrigued by the process of creation, not by the actual product itself.

What a meal will demonstrate to a woman

A meal made with your own hands will signal to a woman that you are willing to take the time necessary to impress her. One thing about most women is that they will not usually admit when they are impressed, but seeing a man willing to take the time to plan and prepare a really great meal will trigger her curiosity about what else he can do. Right away, through the creation of a meal, you have nailed two of the most important aspects of seducing a woman; demonstrating that you are willing to invest time in her, and making her wonder about what other skills you possess.

Another little known fact, one that seems to be passed down to women through their mothers, is that women truly believe that a man who can cook is a man who can think. The evidence for this is everywhere, if you are willing to look. It is a common theme that pops up in movies made for women time and time again, (that is one way women pass on their secret knowledge without guys knowing, through movies guys will never watch or that they fall asleep on after being tricked into watching).

Don’t be afraid, good meals are simple!

Most men are afraid to cook, thinking that it is some monumentally difficult task that they could not possibly surmount. This is not true. Some of the best food is also the easiest to make; you just need to be sure to keep an eye on it so that it doesn’t overcook. Salmon, for example, or any seafood, is a perfect meal for a stay at home date, and it’s also very simple to cook. People who enjoy salmon will enjoy it just broiled, or with any kind of garnish; suggested in a ten dollar cookbook from the store. Of course, you will also have to cook a few side dishes, but dinners for two are never complicated affairs and a simply bean mix or some fancily spiced carrots will set off the taste of the salmon perfectly.

Don’t forget the wine

When it comes to impressing a woman, wine might be the essential ingredient. Will want to select a wine that goes well with the kind of meat you are going to serve; red wine with red meat and white with everything else continues to work well, and if you want to go deeper then you will have to determine the flavors and the heaviness that your main course will be complemented by.

Remember that both with the wine and meal, presentation is the ‘make or break’ of success. Dishes that taste exactly the same will seem to taste better if they are set out in a formal manner; never neglect garnishes. When it comes to wine, you are going to want to make sure that you open the bottle (and pour it), as smoothly as possible. Opening the wine and pouring it is a fun part of the evening, make no mistake about it.

Remember, making a dinner for a woman is only partly about the dish. What really counts towards making a great impression is the thought, the preparation, and the fact that she will be wondering about what else you are capable of.

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Tue, 05 Jun 2007 00:00:00 GMT
Body Language Can Tell Your Secret

by Yaroslav Shakula

In the world of dating, body language is very important. A wave of scientific research studies on psychology and communication have shown that when it comes to dating, body language can communicate more to a current or prospective romantic partner than words, facial expression, or vocal tone. Learning the art of reading body language can help you understand how singles flirt, and how romantically committed couples display their feelings to each other. The more you know about dating body language, the more accurately you will be able to know what your partner is thinking and feeling. You may even discover that your own dating body language can clue you in to your own feelings in confusing situations.

A large part of the art of dating is learning to navigate the world of physical attraction. There are many ways to tell when you are attractive to somebody that you are dating; body language being one of the most accurate and easy to discern. The basics of reading body language on the subject of attraction are very simple. But if you are not in touch with the realities of dating body language, you might miss some of the most classic tell-tale signs of attraction. The most obvious way to tell if you are attractive to someone is not by listening to what they say, but by watching how they behave. If you’re speaking with someone and you notice that their chest is pointed towards you, they are probably paying attention to you even if their face is turned elsewhere, or they are speaking to or with somebody else.

Displaying an open chest to somebody is a sign of interest, which usually goes hand in hand with physical attraction when it comes to flirting or dating. Even from across a room, singles flirt by turning their bodies towards each other. This is a subtle way to let somebody know that you are interested on even subconscious levels. This is a popular technique in bars or at parties because it is so subtle that it does not invite face to face rejection. If you notice that somebody is turned towards you for a long period of time, this may be a subtle invitation to strike up a conversation. This simple act of reading body language can help you determine who is a fruitful prospect even among strangers.

Learning to read body language can be a great help when determining who is interested in you, or how to display your interest to somebody else. However, it is important to remember that just as no two people are exactly alike, no two people will send exactly the same physical signals of attraction. Reading body language can give you clues, but it can never tell you exactly what somebody is thinking or feeling.

The best way to use your knowledge of reading body language is to consider it as a way of making an informed guess. Read somebody’s body language, then try following up on your hunch, but do not rely on body language alone as a way to tell what somebody is up to. Everybody’s signals are slightly different, but knowing about general trends in body language can help you figure out one possibility of what a romantic partner is trying to communicate.

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Mon, 04 Jun 2007 00:00:00 GMT
Attract More Women by Acting Like a Busy Guy

by Scott Patterson

Be more confident. Try the cocky-funny technique. I could go on and on. There are so many tips available to help you attract women. As much as these tips can help you attract more women, you can attract more women with just one simple technique. Be busy. That's it. You can get a woman's attention and increase her desire by having a busy life, or at least appearing to have a busy life.

Here's why...

For many men, the challenge is not getting a woman’s phone number, but the challenge comes with the "post-number" phase when they need to follow up and actually get a date. The problem is usually that the chemistry and intrigue created during the first conversation have diminished somewhat. As a woman turns her attention to other matters in her daily life, your call gradually becomes less of her focal point.

This is a fairly natural occurrence. No, the solution is not to call her immediately after the first conversation. You simply need to rebuild her interest, desire and attraction. Stimulate her desire again, and you can do this best by remembering a common tip, but applying it with a twist. Women tend to be generally more attracted to those with more active, exciting lives. Peak her curiosity by showing her that you are a "busy guy."

A woman will be more intrigued if it appears that there is a lot going on that requiring your attention. Suddenly, your value increases as it is obvious you are not anxiously waiting to see her again or sitting by the telephone waiting for the call. Also, she may even think you are dating or at least talking to other women, which increases her desire for your attention. Again, a little competition, whether present or not in reality, increases the challenge on her end and your value in her eyes.

Wouldn't it be better to have her waiting by the phone for your call? How can you keep that attraction there after you get her number? Here's how.

During that first call, be sure to express that there are just quite a few things requiring your attention during the upcoming week and, as much as you wish you did, you presently have no free time. Emphasize that you would like to see her but that it has "been very busy lately." You want to avoid giving the impression that you do not want to see her but also, do not apologize for your busy life. Just imply with subtlety that you wish you had the time to see her that week, but just do not.

Now, you can go ahead and plan for a date during that conversation for a time when things "slow down." Once the date is set and the plans are made, end the call and get off the phone since you have "things to do" or "need to be somewhere." Do not be too specific, though, but make it sound somewhat important or interesting to again, spike her curiosity.

Once you are on the date, talk a little about some of the activities that have been requiring your time lately. The point is to make it clear that you are a busy guy but that you do want to include her in your "schedule."

This approach is effective. The last thing you want to do after getting her phone number is to give the impression that you have nothing else going on in your life!

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Sun, 03 Jun 2007 00:00:00 GMT
The first issue of Sexy Singles Magazine is now available!
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Sun, 01 Apr 2007 00:00:00 GMT
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Mon, 01 Jan 2007 00:00:00 GMT
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Mon, 06 Nov 2006 00:00:00 GMT
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Thu, 12 Oct 2006 00:00:00 GMT
Looking for up coming issues of Sexy Singles Magazine...
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Wed, 20 Sep 2006 00:00:00 GMT

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